How to Get Your Boyfriend Back

Although there is plenty advice available on the question of how to get your boyfriend back most of it really is not worth very much. Begging him to take you back really does not strike me as a good way of going about things.



Other people will advise you to play games and try to make him jealous and though that may work, do you really want a relationship based on jealousy? Before you say you don't care remember that this type of relationship will not last. As soon as your guy knows he has you back or as soon as the old problems start to surface again your relationship will be over, again.



If the break up occurred through something you did then apologizing might be just the thing that is needed rather than mind games or trickery. Do not misunderstand, even if you were not entirely to blame chances are good that you did handle some things wrong. Apologizing cannot hurt.



Once you are able to acknowledge that you also made mistakes in the relationship the situation becomes one that allows you to make changes. If you can do this it will help you to not make the same mistakes again, causing each other heartache, should the two of you work things out and get back together.



That one piece of advice on getting your boyfriend back is good even if the two of you fail to reunite. At least you will know what things not to do in your next relationship. Either way, you win if you take the time to figure out your mistakes and make changes.



When you do contact him to apologize, keep it short and sweet. Tell him you realize you made some mistakes and that you are truly sorry for any pain you may have caused him.



Do not turn it into a drama with crying and begging thrown in. Also do not have lofty expectations that he will take you back then and there. Chances are that he won't. He may take time to think it over in order to decide if he is prepared to give the relationship another try with the new and more mature you.



If he doesn't want an immediate reconciliation then let him have the time and space he needs. Do not hound him while he takes the time to make up his mind. If you keep at him the chances are good that you will only push him further away and the situation will be irrevocably worsened.



While you let him have his space get on with your own life. Don't hang around waiting for his call. Take time out for yourself to do things that make you feel good. Get a make-over so you look your absolute best and spend time with your friends. Sitting around and worrying is only going to make time move slower and frustrate you more.



If you follow this advice on getting your boyfriend back you will stand a much better chance of being successful than if you choose to follow the advice that suggests you play games and try to make him jealous. It's up to you, good luck.



If you would like more information on getting back together with your ex check out The Magic of Making Up.